Claire's life
1972 March - 2016 September
Created by Paul 7 years ago
Claire
was 'nearly' born in Swindon PMH on 12th March 1972, apparently
she started to make her entrance a little quicker than the taxi
driver could get her Mum, Doreen, to the hospital. Thankfully the midwife
and staff helped finish things off a little more conventionally inside the
hospital.
Claire
grew up at Hambury Road in Park South, Swindon, along with her five siblings,
Tony, Brendan, Karen, Jolene and Jimmy, and had fond memories of visits to see other family in Ireland. Sadly
Tony was taken early in a tragic accident 4 years ago.
As with many families growing
up in the 70's times were hard and life wasn't easy, but Claire had fun times
spent with her friends and family, often playing at her Auntie June's, or out
on the street outside her Nan's house - marbles on the manhole being a
favourite. In fact only 2 years ago Claire, Brendan, Sharon Younger, Robert Collins, Karen Stew, George Dean and
other friends had a street reunion, reliving their childhood on the grass
outside Claire's Nan's house - grown adults playing marbles on the manhole,
climbing trees and sitting on the grass like carefree kids for the afternoon,
before finishing the day with more grown-up celebrations... in the pub.
Claire
went to school at Holy Family, and Oakfield’s before going on to Swindon
College to study amongst other things Childcare, languages and motor
mechanics! She left college able to speak 5 languages fluently including-
French, German, Spanish and Italian. There was even talk of a potential
career as an interpreter.
Claire has
always been determined and hardworking, and this started young with her holding
down three jobs at the same time during her teenage years - working at Hooleys
Solicitors as a trainee legal secretary, cleaning offices in the evenings
elsewhere and then working behind the bar including the infamous Ship
in Westcott Place - where she was convinced she saw an old lady reputed to
haunt the back bar!
Unfortunately
Claire's early first marriage wasn't a happy one, right from the
start and it broke up within the first year - Claire courageously and independently
striding out on her own to start a new life. She started working in The
Oxford pub in Drove Road, with Karen and Dave, soon becoming friends
with one of the other barmaids, Claire Fairchild and then took up lodgings with
her in her house in Plymouth Street.
Sadly
Claire's beloved Mum, Doreen, also died way too young at the age of
48 in 1993, leaving Claire and the family devastated.
Claire
continued working hard, giving her all to the job at the pub, the same as she
did with everything she put her mind to. Karen (just a half) and
Dave became great friends, Claire often babysitting for their lovely children
Sioned, Katrina and Cameron.
Claire
met Paul (Bertie to nearly everyone except his mum and his boss) as he was a
regular in the pub with his Dad and mates, including a long lost friend - Lyle
Thompson, who once commented on Claire's colourful language by saying
"well, at least no-one will ever get thrown out of Claire's pub for
swearing!” Bertie and Fred were members of the pub dart team with Claire
doing the catering for home games - one evening an almighty crash,
a scream, and swearing came from the kitchen as Claire slipped over
and spilled hot Bolognese all over herself - closely followed by laughter,
before picking herself up and getting on with the job.
One
otherwise ordinary evening in the pub about 21 years ago, Claire engineered for
Bert to be on his own for a few minutes, by getting his Dad away to talk to
Karen and Dave - so that she could ask him out on a date - not backward in coming
forward, our Claire - and that was the start of their wonderful life together.
The
first date was a meal in Gaetano’s - a place they have revisited many times in
the years since.
Bert
used to stay over with Claire in Plymouth Street, and very soon
she fell pregnant with the first child Dan - around Valentine’s Day 1996,
looked on by Thomas the Tank wallpaper.
Being
the selfless person she was, even though she was 6 months pregnant with Dan,
Claire was more than happy for Bert to go on his long planned 3 week
holiday to California with his mates. Whilst he was away, Claire stayed with Bert's parents Fred and
Jen, but soon after the holiday
they moved in to their new home in Beatrice Street, where they have stayed
happily ever since.
Dan
was born in 1996 and their young family life got off to a fantastic start.
Claire went back to work almost straight away, money was tight and they
both needed to work - besides Claire loved working in the pub. Dan was
not quite 4 months old when they got a call from the temporary landlord of the
pub saying the brewery had approved their application to run the pub and they
should take over straight away. They moved into the pub the very next day and took the reins - to their surprise though,
the brewery knew nothing about it! The temps had done a flit and left
Claire and Bert to explain. Thankfully Claire convinced them they were
right for the job and went on to
prove it for about 2 years. Claire managed the pub brilliantly and was
the perfect landlady - always happy to share a beer and talk with the punters,
but equally ready to step in and sort things out if the need arose. Those
two years were filled with happy memories and when they left to concentrate on
family life they did so with hopes and dreams of one day retiring to a pub
somewhere in Cornwall - well I'm sure she'll be pulling pints wherever she is
now.
After
leaving the pub, Claire worked as an office
temp and soon landed her job at BCS, and went on to spend 17 years, making
many friends, working hard and above all having fun - there are countless
stories of the ISEB chicks on tour which will no doubt be shared again later
today and for years to come.
Claire
was struck with cervical cancer in the late 90's but with early treatment
she made a swift and full recovery, and went on to have their second son, Jake
in 2001.
Learning
to drive didn't happen until much later, so when the boys needed taking to
childcare, nursery and school, with Bert working shifts in Oxford, Claire would walk miles before and after work dropping
them off, in all weathers - most often with Dan riding in the basket under
Jake's pram, and Claire making up stories, singing and laughing with them to
make the trek bearable and fun.
Family
life suited Claire down to the ground and she was a devoted, loving, caring and
fun mum, always making time to play and have fun. Claire and Bert enjoyed
the most wonderful, trusting, and respectful, passionate and loving
relationship - each enjoying their own hobbies, pursuits and friends, giving
them plenty to share and laugh about together. Claire always supported
Bert, when he left BMW and started self-employment, even waving him off to
America again with Nigel to pursue 'training' for the grandfather clock
business they were running - although there was plenty of fun had too.
Claire
was a party animal, and a night owl - never happier than in the company of
friends and family, a Fosters in one hand and a fag in the other, laughing,
singing Tina Turner hits, dancing in the kitchen, having fun or putting the
world to rights at one of the many, many parties held at Beatrice Street -
Christmas', Birthdays, New Year's Eves, casino nights, a sunny Saturday,
rainy days when the BBQ came inside, in fact any excuse to be
with friends and have fun, not least the infamous beach party with dozens of
bags of play sand spread across the kitchen floor to have an indoor beach. Claire was always the last one
standing, long after Bert had disappeared to bed, or fallen asleep with a glass of red wine in his han.
Bert
and Claire married at The Goddard Arms, 12th June 2004 with both sons proudly
standing at her side, looking so smart in their suits the same as Bert -
refusing to take them off, no matter how hot they were, until he took his off
first... Dan proudly signing the wedding certificate as witness and getting ink
on his fingers - thanks for licking it clean Stef - and Jake being tickled
by the button-hole flower. The honeymoon even turned into a party with 12
friends joining them in Rhodes for a
Communi-moon.
Apart
from her two biggest achievements, Dan and Jake, Claire proudly started
running, completing her first 5km run with Shinsplints and later going on to do
several Race for Life Cancer charity runs, and she loved her Zumba dance lessons with Karen - coming home
absolutely buzzing with excitement after each session.
Her
love of cats started as a little girl with Tibbs, and continued in married life
with Chevy and Rudi, often calling herself the mad cat lady, she took great
comfort from having several visits from Rudi whilst in Prospect, enjoying
having her curl up on her bed to be stroked.
Claire
always had time for others, always willing to lend an ear, a shoulder to cry on
or words of advice and comfort - not forgetting to offer her opinion. She
was straight forward, told it how it was and never played games with emotions.
Always smiling, laughing and having fun. Claire loved the American
cars and hot rods Bert enjoys, loving the Chevy and the retro scene.
After initially hating Bert's Model B Hot Rod when they first got
together, she grew to love it and cried when they sold it.
In
recent years, Claire volunteered, helping with 17th Swindon cubs and trained to
be a Cub Leader - Shada, before
becoming ill last year. She absolutely loved working with children,
thoroughly enjoying all the times spent with the cubs - learning many new
skills and taking part in lots of new activities - camping, PGL, wild games
etc. Even coping with creepy crawlies and spiders.
The
last year has been tough, diagnosed with a brain tumour in August
2015, but after the initial shock and realisation, she was determined to
stay positive throughout. To live life to the max and have fun, not to be
frightened and sad. She started writing a diary but soon found that
focused the mind too much on the negative so gave that up in favour of doing
things instead of writing about it.
She
and Bert focused all their efforts on enjoying what time they had
left, making memories with Dan and Jake! - They hoped for 5 more years
together, but it wasn't to be and Claire never wanted to be sad. Even in
her final days, wagging a knowing finger at a friend who dared to feel sad, and
started to cry at her bedside, and telling off other mates who fetched a nurse,
instead of chips.
Claire
was an enormously strong person, who had a hard start in life, but made up for
it by enjoying every possible moment. Proud of her beautiful family, with
endless love for Bert and her young men, Dan and Jake.
She looked forward to growing old with Bert, becoming that
shuffling old couple in the street, wearing beige; watching her family grow and
sharing their futures. She has been taken from us all, far too soon and
we will all miss her terribly, but we all know that she would not allow us to
be sad for long - the party must go on, for our Fosters Queen.
Sweet
dreams Claire Love you ever ever